"Broken windows” on a personal level are particular signs of disorder that make one feel out of control and overwhelmed.
When I think about things that give me anxiety I immediately think about other homes
and my apartment. I keep it neat and clean because I get overwhelmed if I don't. I often get overwhelmed when I walk into environments that I cannot control but I have to remind myself that some people don't mind a mess/what is messy to me is normal for others.
- When the couch pillows are not organized correctly.
- Dishes in the sink. (they need to be in the dishwasher)
- Anything that is cluttered, countertops especially. (it is safe to say I am a neat freak)
- Anything out of place (everything has a place and I know exactly where I can find it)
- Drinking straight from the milk carton (or any carton).
- Dog hair anywhere. (thankful for dogs that do not shed)
- When the TV volume is too high
- Kids being loud and obnoxious. (I think I am getting into my pet peeves now)
Sometimes I need to loosen up and realize some of these things aren't a big deal. BUT it sure does make me feel better when these things are in order.
What are your "broken windows"?
The kitchen must be clean. Crumbs on the counter, dishes in the sink. Ugh......drives me nuts.
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